I've done it, you've done it, and we will all probably do it again — give our two cents. You know what I'm talking about. We all think we can fix each others problems or lives, but first we need to fix our own. I'm going to try to do better with this, but it will be a struggle every day. Seeing someone in a restaurant with their kids screaming, we say, "well if she did this or that..." but in all honesty, it's their problem — not ours. If you stop and think about it, I'm sure people probably have an "improvement" they would like to make for you or I — we need to remember that before we give someone our "two cents." In other words, work on improving your own life before trying to improve others.
If this post could leave a lasting impression on anyone, I hope this is it! We have ALL failed at something. It might have been in following a recipe, being a friend, growing a plant, work, etc. but the amazing thing about failing, is knowing you can start over again. It's never too late. Failure is a part of life, but it is NOT the definition of you. School tests are just a small taste of failure in school, the older you get you really get to experience what failure can feel like. You can let failing at something dominate who you are or you can learn from it and let it improve, you!

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ReplyDeleteGREAT post!!!i've been focusing on ME for the last few years because i am the only person I can change and do something about. and I can't give something away that I don't have. I've got to get "it" first!
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ReplyDeleteLike Jen, I've been working on 'me' for the last year. I need to be happy with myself and change what I don't like about myself before I start dishing out advice to others.
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So true! I think if we all spent a little more time and energy on ourselves and a lot less time judging others, it'd be a whole lot nicer world. Following you from the Finding New Friends Hop and hoping you can return the love. You can find me at Yankee Texan Mom or Mama's Money Tree
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